She refuses to bathe even though we put in a walk in tub. She wont let anyone help her. She used to take sponge baths but can no longer stand long enough to do it herself. She wont wash her hair or pay for it to be done regularly. She is hiding food in her room. The stench between her and her dog coming from her room is filling the house and she wont let anyone in to clean. I refuse to have company because of the smell. I had no close relationship with her before she moved in and I am having a very hard time coping.