We researched all the brands to find what the most comfortable option is, and ended up with boxes and boxes of the things. She refuses to wear anything protective whatsoever. I got so tired of washing piles of stinky clothes, changing bed linens daily and shampooing her carpet weekly. Then she had a small stroke and had to go to a nursing facility. I thought that would force the issue but she removes the undergarments there too. We have had several serious discussions with her about the subject but nothing seems to work. Now if she returns home I am afraid the matter will become even worse. At my wits end.