She is ALWAYS telling me that "I am just taking over." Mother-in-Law has Alzheimer's. Where she was once sweet and mild manner the Alz has made her VERY mean and hateful. Hazel is angry at my husband, Billy, (her son) and especially me after I "HELPED" put her in an Assisted Living because she could no longer live at home. She yells at us and tells me to "quit trying to treat her like a 2 year old" when I help her with anything. She tells me that "I am just trying to take over". After about 10 minutes of this I start to become angry. How do I control my temper and anger? Telling myself over and over that she can't help it doesn't work. HELP me please!!