As far as I know, my mom has dementia or worse. She will not allow me to talk with MD and won't allow me to help her with money. She has recently, for no reason, developed a mistrust for me and called police when some jewelry went missing. (She is constantly hiding it in different places) she is implied to police that it was possibly me. I'm an RN and am afraid of loosing my license if the accusations don't stop. I've had to cut myself off from her and will not see her alone. Also, all conversations are recorded. I just don't know what else I can do. She forgets most everything short term and does revision on history. What can I do to get her diagnosed? She refuses to go to doctor. She will not allow me to be on her account to write checks to avoid late fees. I can't help her but what can I do to protect me?