She NEVER asks to go see him. She goes with me to the cemetery to change out the flowers. She wonders why she hasn't heard from him. We have done and said it all...and yes because she has dementia she asks again. She never gets sad or cries one way or the other with our responses. But last night she said she just thought that she would have gotten a note from him by now. Should I write a letter to her from him...telling her that he loves her and will see her soon...or that he can't come home just yet...or that he will never be able to come home...I'm just thinking as much as she like to get notes from people....and she keeps them all...should there be one from him that she can pull out and read on her own...and what should it say??? Help. So sad!