How can I get power of attorney without going to court? I've been paying her bills on her house and I'm running out of money. She has been living with my husband and myself for 6 months now. My mom is stubborn and won't agree to anything I say. She is under Hospice care now and really can't think for herself now. My brother (70) and sister (59) don't help me at all. I'm at my wits end now. I need suggestions please. Thank you so very much.