Their lives and mine have become miserable. Earlier this year, she was hospitalized with a bacterial infection, which triggered DIC and then she became septic. She lost both of her hands due to this illness. The amputation surgery took around 9 hours. Her dementia rapidly increased after it. They argue constantly. She has been verbally and physically abusive to him. She says he has been verbally abusive to her. She says she doesn't like him and she is pretty sure she doesn't love him anymore. He says he is not going to live this way any longer. He is going to leave it to me.