She said she liked it there, until I went on a vacation for a week. At first she loved the apartment , the people and the food. going into the third week now everything is bad. The bathroom is too small...it is way not small. Her table gets served last at meals etc. She says things changed around there....no they haven't. I go to see her three times a week, I talk to the staff and watch what goes on all of the time. It is a really nice place. Her complaints are petty and she is resisting OT and PT, and has been refusing to go to the dining room for meals. I know her, she is manipulative and is angling to move back with me and I cannot provide the care she needs any longer. Anyone experience this type of behavior? I think it's finally sunk in that she is staying and now she is just being defiant and resists following rules/PT/OT guidance.