I have 4 other brothers and sister, and I am the only one who is really responsible enough to take care of her. My problem is, she keeps me up at night, going to the bathroom constantly, and I have had her checked by doctors and they say nothing is wrong. First it is her bladder, then bowel movements. I have had to clean up some accidental messes also. She takes laxatives, sleeping pills, bladder medicines (all over the counter), ALL the time. But she doesn't eat much at all. My son who is 15 is angry because she has taken over his bathroom, with pads, diapers, feminine spray, false teeth items all over it. I try and explain, but you know teenagers. I just early retired in January and when my mom was independent living on her own, her doctor said she was healthy and would live to a hundred. At that time I told her she could live with me, before I would let my older brother put her in a nursing home, which he would threaten to do, since she lived on his property. But now I'm not sure. She needs so much attention, and my health is not very good either. I cook, clean, wash clothes, give her meds, and everything. She is hard of hearing so she also accuses me of saying things about her, that I didn't say. I am the only one taking care of her, except an Occupational therapist that bathes her (that mom complains about getting) and a Physical therapist 2x a week, that mom also complains about. She goes to the bathroom about 28 times a day, and that doesn't include the night. She has fallen 3 times in the last month and a half. I just don't know what to do. I have had everything checked on her. The problem with the nursing home is I heard they would take everything she owns for her to stay there. In her will she divides her money up evenly between 5 kids, (which for me, I don't care if they take) but for the other kids, they will be so mad, even though they can't take care of her. I just feel so lost, tired, and seeing my health declining. Any suggestions would be helpful!