Mom died a month ago, today. I was her caregiver/roommate for 21 years. I find myself not wanting to do anything. I still haven't cleaned her bedroom. My entire house is geared toward her safety and comfort. I don't know where to start and I just sit in front of the tv. I need to find a job and haven't pursued that. Since Mom died, I have had a severe infected/impacted tooth as well as strep throat. I have no idea how a month has passed and I've accomplished nothing. Is this normal grief?