She lived with my husband and I for two years met a man at church got married without my permission I have DPA the church people new how we felt and the pastor did also. We found out the day before they got married, and the following day her money was taken from the bank this was in both our names. I have been to an elder care attorney with paperwork and everything ,only to be told I did not have a case. Now fast forward a year now they will be married a year, from day one she calls him by my stepdads name, who passed 6 years ago. He cashed a check made out to my mom,and owed me $600 and said he didn't have any money. I asked him to take it out of savings, he said they didn't have savings, my mother has contributed over $30,000 dollars to that household and they don't have any money? Really and the attorney told me I didn't have a case. It's sad our justice system is so backward that they would not allow me to help my mother. I was told guardianship was very expensive,and it doesn't guarantee I would get it any way. So as far as I'm concerned, There is no justice , for the elderly being abused certainly not my mom. Oh if my mom was in her right mind she would never have picked this guy! Any one that knows my mom would testify in court to that.