My father is not in good condition either and not able to care for her. I go everyday and do what I can do. I take her to all doctors appointments and do all the grocery shopping for them... I take care of writing out the checks for the.monthly bills. I make her nedicine up a week in advance and ny dad gives it to her. She has copd... End stage... And dementia.. Im asuming... Shes gets really confused and sees things that arent there. Shes having crying spells often.. I dont know what else I can do for them?