I live here locally, but work. Is it unusual for an assisted living facility not to give you a list of the extra care, and the cost for such care? I have asked to meet with them, and have asked them to call me, but they have not. I found out today she has not had a bath in 3 weeks, and they told her she would get a bath every Tuesday at 3:00 p.m. They also as of yesterday, told her they could not crush her pills up any more without an order from her doctor. She has always had problem swallowing large pills. I'm having to handle more things now than before assisted living. Becoming frustrated, and a little mad with them.