My mom moved in with me in January 2018 after her Alzheimer’s diagnosis and financial challenges. She does literally nothing all day other than obsessively look at her phone, walk her dog and buy things she doesn’t need (and drink wine and smoke). Refuses to participate in senior daytime programs. Is constantly depressed and crying and telling me I am mean to her (not true!!). Will antidepressants help? Should I encourage her to move to an independent living facility? She doesn’t have a lot of money. I just want her to be less miserable! It is hard to be home around her and feel like I am constantly failing her!