She insisted we move into a bigger home for her, ours wasn’t good enough. She helped with the down payment. She has always been demanding and controlling. She has cancer & macular degeneration so she needs a lot of help. We feel trapped and can’t go away on trips like we would like to because she refuses to have anyone stay here with her. She thinks she doesn’t need help. Which is completely false! I miss having my own home & life back!! I know she needs me and I love my mother but this is getting harder!!