No income and dad pays for everything..He has short term memory loss and needs help with just about everthing. Has epilepsy, dementia, and recently had foot sugery to remove cancer so hes in a wheelchair for now. He moved in recently and I need resources fast! It has been good to read everyones comments as I too feel guilty spending my dads money. But bills have to be paid. What else can I do? My other sibling wants nothing to do with helping and he has his own health problems. Its really just my dad and me. Am I in the wrong?