Not sure what category to post this in. I'm not my mom's caregiver and she doesn't have a caregiver. But I made a promise to her to help her one day a week with having groceries and other supplies delivered to her, etc. I've been doing this for her every Thursday, and if that were only way I was helping I think it might be OK for me.
However, I feel like I must be available to my mom on a spontaneous basis for her urgent health-related needs, and I feel like I have no choice because I don't want her to go without help, and apparently she has nobody else she trusts to help her when these situations occur. I'm not OK with the situation at all but not sure what to do.