For years (after Daddy died 2001) Mom has been obsessed with her housekeeper turned companion and now caregiver's son (he's married, there's no relationship, he just takes her money and calls her, she calls him constantly. Why does wife allow? They're broke as church mice......how do people know how much $ church mice have?!?). This has been going on since then, she's not wealthy..... And I've been legally and Motherly gagged.
Years ago Mom left the house to him in her will, nothing to my brother and me OR to his Mom who continues to care for her. We're fine with that after all these years. Now Mom has entered a new phase of dementia. She's about to take this man to her atty this week to give him PofA.
Can he go thru her bank funds, "utilize" her monthly pension as her health declines and then, depending on the state of her health and needs, decide he doesn't want to sell her (his) house to provide for her necessary care, be it private or ALiving, NHome, etc.?
In other words, could he, for lack of a better term, "put her out there or dump her on me?" I don't mean it in a cruel way. I'm talking legally...
Are there any options I can present to her atty before they meet? Like, please look out for my mom's best interest in a clause of some sort?