Help! Mom is obsessed with going to the doctor. She has chronic IBS which presents as stomach pain. It is caused by or aggravated by stress and the doctor tells us to manage the condition with diet and lifestyle changes. But her anxiety is caused by the Alzheimer's. She wants to go to the doctor every day and thinks we are being cruel when we don't take her. How can I put her mind at ease and get her to understand that she can't talk to the doctor every day? I'm also afraid that we might miss something more serious. I wish I had medical training!