My Mom stays in her room almost all day. She has leg pain and I take her to a rehab facility. They massage her calf and put heat on her leg which really isn't doing much for the problem; She had 2 compressed fractures of the spine requiring surgery 3 months ago.This was an outpatient procedure. The rehab tech doesn't beleive the leg pain relates to her spine. She is taking pain meds and I have an appointment for her with a pain management clinic. My concern right now is her lack of appetite, wanting to stay in bed all day, and not wanting to bathe. She is 100 years old and has signs of dementia. I need guidance on how to deal with these issues.