She is so embarrassed and hates being changed and washed. She came to me for dinner the other night and I was having people over and before that she messed herself. I offered to bath and change her but she refused and she was smelling awful. She told me she wants to go back to the home. It was much too late to take her back to the home so my daughter and myself insisted on bathing her. My mom hated it and protested while she was being bathed. I feel like I have got a child all over again.