Mom has been in a memory care facility for 8 months. She calls two or three times every day but I only take one call a day because her calls are so upsetting to me. She always badgers me about taking her home. Once in awhile I'm able to convince her she's in the best place she can be, especially with the Coronavirus situation. Then I feel good until the next day when she's back to badgering me again. I have to explain how the virus is affecting all of our lives just about every time I talk to her because she doesn't remember. I tell her this is why no one can visit her. Her facility doesn't allow window visits either. I even wrote her a letter explaining it all but she says she never got it. Most of the time she ends up getting very angry with me and hanging up on me. I sometimes can't help myself and start arguing with her. Mom always seemed to be an unhappy person and I have always tried to make her happy, but I can't now. Her anti anxiety medication has been increased and I have had to increase mine too. I am cleaning out her house now preparing to sell it. (Dad passed away last August. He was in a nursing home for almost 2 years with Alzheimer's.) How do I tell her this? How do I stop myself from getting so upset over her phone calls?