My mother's dementia is worsening and I can't get her to a neurologist. I can't get any help for her unless she sees a neurologist. I can't get her in my car at all, not even for an ice cream. She knows something is wrong and she's afraid. I can't get an ambulance out here to take her to the hospital unless she's sick or injured. She's refusing any help. I'm so scared for her, what do I do?