I have an issue with this living arrangement, although my brother thinks it's a great idea. My brother plans to put up Mom's house for sale and use the money from the house to pay for the caregiver. Mom still lives in her house, and has for over 60 years. I would rather see my Mom go in a good nursing home. I do not want my Mom living in a house with an 80 y/o man who is closer to her age than her caregiver. If my brother goes through with this, my Mom will be heartbroken. This caregiver has been Mom's caregiver during the past 2 years, so it's not like they're long time friends. Mom really doesn't like her. My Mom still knows what's going on, she's not completely oblivious to life. My Mom is mean and difficult to get along with especially when she get confused. My brother has legal guardianship over her, so I don't know where to turn. My brother doesn't want to deal with my Mom any longer. I help out and stay with my Mom on the weekends. I'm single and work full time. I have 2 sisters that refuse to help out. They do not call her or show any compassion to her. I love Mom dearly and want the best care possible for her, but I feel extremely nervous to have Mom live under these conditions. My brother claims Mom is running out of money. I do not know what Mom's financial situation is since he handles her finances. Please help.