Mom had a stroke about 8 weeks ago. Her boyfriend did not let us know. We live out of town. When we could not reach her we went to her house and found her locked in the house by herself. She can no longer walk and did not have access to a phone. She could talk and communicate but seemed out of it. She is on SSI disability. We do not have her ID, POA or access to her medical records. Her boyfriend is controlling and uncooperative. He leaves her alone for 8 hours a day in a bed wearing a diaper. We don't know what our options are.