84 y/o mom with various health problems eye sight, disc disease, arthritis, including early dementia. Will not adjust to rules and demands pain meds at will. Non compliant about just about everything. The rehab dr (before AL) has written instruction she could not stay alone (she’d broken hip had partial replacement). Does his word stand for good or do I try to find another dr ??? She’s insisting she will not live there another 10 years. She has long term policy that is paying some but not all. What do you do? Safety is number one priority, but her emotional is becoming critical too. Very independent but conniving. Any suggestions, am I just still dealing with guilt that she has to be there?