My mom is "her way or the highway" w/ mid stage Alzheimer's. She is always right and thinks she is perfectly fine and remembers exactly what happened 100% total denial of any memory issues ever. In this instance I am stuck with a big problem, if I lie, tell the truth do anything other than agree with my mom she insists we are wrong. period, you could not reason with her before dementia but not now at all. She had a caregiver go to the store to get her cigs but then without her knowledge used the card to get over $1200 cash back over 2 days of which she pocketed. She didn't know we watch the bank records closely & caught it immediately fired her, filed a police report etc (she was the only one that could of used the card and on camera during this time etc) mom was amazed this could happen. Well it's all changed around now in her mind and now we fired her needlessly - because she asked for the money to pay a bill and we are wrong and she wants her back now and we are to blame and we wrongfully accused her and she's been calling her cell phone etc it goes on and on. Her whole story as to her not stealing the cash is 100% made up. She won't accept ANY other care and is so messed up this is really throwing her but insists we are wrong and to hell with us she wants her back she did nothing wrong . Very mean insistent etc and won't let it go it's been 3 weeks.