My mom wants to live up north and my dad wants to stay south. I'm worried that my mom is going to have a stroke with blood pressure sometimes running 200/110. She complains of the stress from 500 miles away. I'm am stressed beyond my max. My husband and I are also dealing with his mom who also needs us. They have all asked to come live with us but we have no children, jobs and a 1 bedroom apartment and can't retire for 4 years. I believe they all feel we should up-root our lives for them, rent a house etc.. I have them all on a list for Sr. Housing 1 mile from us but apparently the list is moving fast enough and they are scared they my dad's health will decline and not be able to make the 500 mile trip back to us. I am at my wits end and making myself sick with worry. Any words of encouragement, advice or a Plan B,C,D???