Mom (80) won't get verbally abusive son (54) out of her assisted living apartment? - AgingCare.com

Mom (80) won't get verbally abusive son (54) out of her assisted living apartment?

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A friend's mom (80 yrs old) has 54 (year old) son living with her in her assisted living apartment. He works periodically but is basically homeless without her. She feels bad but he is verbally abusive and has history of drug abuse. How does family get him out

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Why is the assisted living allowing this? Is his name on the lease too? This is wrong on so many levels. Your friend needs to address this with the administrator and director of nursing at the AL. Between the three of them, a plan of action for eviction needs to be in place. Also, contacting the long term ombudsman asap is a good move. This way, there is documentation to start.
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This is so messed up as to almost sound like a hornet's nest...that you wouldn't want to poke. If you can't talk him into moving...and she doesn't want to force him...if the assisted living facility doesn't care...the only option is nuclear.

I would be hesitant, frankly. The nuclear option would be to declare mom incompetent and evict him. I think that's a poor move. It's liable to produce very unpleasant unintended consequences.
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Usually Assisted Living facilities have just a studio apartment for their residents. Where does he sleep, and does he eat in the common dining area with the other residents?
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