I have two siblings that fight me on everything. I have cared for Mom for 7 years and a couple of years ago my brother and I went and picked a cemetery plot by my Mother's brother and the other two called the lady in charge of the cemetery and she called me and said my mother could not be buried in any other plot except for the one reserved by my Aunt, my Mother did not want this plot beside her sister due to some deep hurt. The siblings were not included because they had stated that they didn't and couldn't choose a plot for Mom, and besides it would have been a bigger argument than it was. I had to choose another location and another cemetery due to their actions and I am afraid to tell them and afraid to place the tombstone due to them getting upset. I am afraid of what they will do. I have tried to include them but like I said they have fought me on everything, and have attacked my family. I would like to get this resolved before my Mother gets sick and passes. Don't want all hell to break loose at the funeral. Yes that is what it will be! The spot was my Mother's second choose which is beside my Dad which is not their Dad. I am not doing this to be mean I am doing the best to do what my Mother wants, she has dementia so she cannot tell them, but they wouldn't listen to her either.