I work full time, own my own place, raise horses. Mom moved in with me 2006 to get out of a bad relationship. last year I asked her to chip in financially by paying the 120 a month cable-internet-phone bill. It got ugly- she says she has no money-rewrote her will- told all her friends I was trying to get her to bail me out. I pay all the bills. I had to go to unlimited LD because her average monthly LD is 48 HOURS. How can I make her see that she needs to contribute to the bills. I am the oldest of 4. My sisters hate her( really) my brother has enough problems. If I ask her to leave- I will be the bad guy, but I am tired of being taken advantage of. I am not rich- barely make ends meet. I am tired of the whole situation but don't know how to make it better without making her leave at this point. I asked her again 2 weeks ago to help out. Same ugly conversation. No Money. BUT she just bought 2 donkeys in June that I provide a barn for also.