Mom will be 90 soon and has been living in a wonderful Board & Care in Northern CA. for 3.5 years after we couldn't care for her any longer in our home. She gets Social Security and a survivor's pension but that still leaves a monthly gap of about $2500 that is being paid with her savings. She has no assets and her savings will be gone in a few months. NOW WHAT?
My husband & I are both retired and live 13 hours away in AZ. Her Drs. recommend she not be moved if possible but how to fund the gap? 2 brothers will NOT help in any way. So much anxiety and stress trying to figure what to do! Any thoughts and recommendations would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance!