My mom has Alzheimers. My dad then wants to put her in a Memory wing of Assisted living. THEN, she has a good day where she is wonderful and sweet and nice. Dad then changes him mind. I can't blame him he is the main caregiver and is worried for her safety. He has check out several homes and has called several family meeting to take the big step and then cancels. He is 85 and getting worn out. Any Suggestions?