I'm at my wit's end...They way I figured it out (besides the fact that she is stinky a lot) was that she wasn't wiping post BMs because she never flushes and there is no TP in there. Hoping for some good ideas on how to deal with this. First let me start by telling you what I have already tried: I put those flushable wet wipes next to the toilet....they never get used...even when I put a note near the toilet to USE AFTER BMs. I stand by the door if I hear her go in there and gently remind her to "wipe after you go," to which she gets furious..."why are you hovering over the door...I'm not 2 years old....of COURSE I'm going to wipe!!!" Then I realize that no she did NOT wipe. She will adamantly insist that she did but I see no evidence of that AND I'm starting to find her undies all messy. She will hide them under her bed!!!! I have started making her wear Depends (that was NO easy task) but she finally is resigned to that. I make her take baths more often (which she also hates to do) but it's hard to know if she is really even getting herself clean down there. She will not let me do anything other than run the bath and then she insists I leave (frankly I do not want to stay in there anyway!) She does get in the tub and she does soak for a long time so I'm hoping this is enough to keep her clean. I'm open to any opinions on if you think what I'm doing is fine enough or ??? TIA.