My mom is 94, legally blind and confined to a wheelchair since last October after a catastrophic fall. Her other children don't participate except for myself. Her happy place is her childhood. She constantly asks about her siblings and wants to visit her Mom, I think to clear up the past. I tell her that her Mom lives to far away. Should I ask her if she want to write to her? I could write the letter so she can get it off her mind. Mom is here for a limited amount of time as she is losing weight and her body is no longer absorbing nutrients.
Also, I am reluctant to take trips with my husband, who has issues also since I want to be there for Mom. When I visit she does not want me to leave . . . I am so torn about how to handle!