So...parents still living in their own home from 60+ years. Dad is 95 and Mom 87. He's catheterized and has dementia (although not too bad from what I see) and sleeps most of the day. Mom - "boohoo" "whoa is me" back and forth about putting my dad "away". She seems to be very confused and has not been diagnosed with dementia but I'm sure she has it. There's an aide there every day from 9am-7pm but it doesnt seem to be enough for this woman. I hate her, I love her, I feel sorry for her. Some of it might be attention getting, but it scares the heck out of me. My brother the workaholic has POA. Is there any way we can put my dad away if he doesn't want to go? She won't do assisted living. Thanks in advance.