My dilemma... I have a 78 year old feisty temperamental mother. She currently lives with me in my home. My house was special built with a two bedroom apartment attached to it so she can still have her independence. We live in Illinois and the weather hasn't been all that nice the past winter. My mother decided she wants to move to Texas to rent an apartment there. Since we bought the house together if she moves she wants some of the money she put into the house so that would require me to sell the home and I would move into something smaller. My main concern is what if in a couple years her health starts to fail... she has no family in Texas but does have a couple friends. I cant drop everything here to go look after her. Admittedly I would love for her to go to Texas as she is a very hard woman to live with... but what about down the road? If I sell the home I wont have a place to bring her back too. Is this a wise move for her?