Mom has been in the nursing facility for one year now. She is becoming more and more negative and critical of everything. She is argumentative and still tells me she wants to go home permanently. Lately she has been insisting on going to her home for the day to sew, do some wash, and maybe even spend the night.
At first I told her straight out, no. She had a major meltdown, cried and wanted to know "why". I couldn't come up with a good answer. I asked the nurse manager what she thought, and she thought it would be ok. I am very very uncomfortable with it and keep putting my mom off telling her "when I get time".
What should I do?