Need advice, Mom getting dischared from Re-hab, wants to go home but not able to be alone, I want with me, but relatives are stepping in. They want her to NEVER go home. I live in Nebraska and she in CA. My cousin is "taking" her home with her but wants ME to pay for adult day care at $78/day. My mom still has a home, on reverse morgage amd I pay all her bills...she/I can not afford $3,000.00 a month to let my mom sleep on my cousins couch! In a small one bedroom apt. When Mom owns a 3 bd house.