Mom is 82. Parkinsons/blind/can no longer walk. She used to be able to walk with a lot of help so she could at least get to the toilet. She and my nephew caregiver fell while he was trying to help her to toilet. Nephew hurt his back trying to keep mom from falling. She does not want to go to nursing home. She wants to come live with me here in Texas (she's in Calif.) My husband is 66, I am 59 income is VA benefits & my SSDI. We rent, our lease is valid until 2015. My sister, husband & nephew have been caring for her. She lives with my brother who works full time. Now my nephew has started college and can no longer "baby sit" mom. She cannot be left alone. I feel so guilty saying this, but the level of care she now needs getting out of reach for us. The wheel chair offers ability to move, but now her sight is gone. Taking her meds require someone giving them to her, same with meals. Access to the bathrooms here is impossible, since she can no longer assist. This is overwhelming. HELP!