My Mom just got out of assisted living, I have been running around like a chicken trying to pay all her bills, do banking, go to post office, while she was in the facility, some of her bills like Comcast for example I just tossed the top part, now she is calling me asking me for this and that bill part, when some of the stuff I just do not have. She is really getting to me. I work full time and have two children, her mail comes to us to the post office, she is scrutinizing everything, I just do not have the time for it, for a year and I half I have done everything she has asked. My days off are not my own, they are to take care of her needs, she is in Ca and I am in Seattle. Just a question do I need to show her every little bit I pay for her, and why do you think she is doing this? I know she trusts me so why is she doing this. I am ready to tear my hair out, I want to give up this job but I cannot. My Mom doesn't like any of my brothers or sisters, I am the only one she likes. If I give up she might put her trust in her caregivers which probably wouldn't be such a good idea. Thank you in advance for any responses.