I am looking after my 85 year old. I live upstairs in her house. I do chores, take care of home related issues etc. It has been a win win for the two of us, and most of all she provides me with a home and I provide security and company. Recently she has been saying, " I want to give you this house..." Currently the house will be left to her siblings to sell and split. Not sure if I want to go down this path, since her siblings never see her. Because it comes down to money. Any first steps to take?I am currently 47. I would love to live here, it is the family home for over a hundred years. She is a rather difficult person, and is rather harsh to people, including family. I have no problems with her...and like I said, we get along. I was never a home owner, always rented. I am worried about the complications.