Hi, gees feel like a regular on here but just need to vent . My mom's urine smells really bad like fish sometimes and she sits in her dirty diaper smelling up the house even when she goes to the toilet her poo smells like something crawled up her butt and died? Grant you everyone's poo smells but hers is like death even when the door is closed. She is diabetic and has heart problems extremely verbally abusive, falls a lot and has memory loss plus hallucinates every now and then and doesn't keep her doctor appointments. Now she was checked for dementia years ago but they claim she didn't have it, but I really think she should be checked again. I'm looking into getting a place with my boyfriend and thinks she is going to go to but I told her she can't and needs professional help. Honesty she is more in need of a nursing home in my opinion because of her declining health she also can barely walk and can't dress herself and needs assistance with bathing. Its honestly sad because if she was a nicer person people or her kids would want to take her in but she is so bad that even her friends ignore her plus my other siblings don't want nothing to do with her . A part of me feels guilty because I'm looking for a way out. My mom has helped me in the past and I'm grateful for it but the abuse is getting out of control that I just want to get away and don't want to look back! Oh she plays the part in front of the doctors like everything is all good all her kids are bad she is a victim grant you the eldest sister did steal from her years ago and its funny cause that's the one who won't lift a finger for her and she is the golden child a whole nother subject but what does it take to wake the doctors up to see she isn't all there!