I just took my mother home from the NH rehab where she has been for a month..She has AD which was diagnosed in Feb. this year, but had progressed rapidly. She is now wheelchair bound and needs 24 care/supervision. Since coming home 3 days ago, she has been very abusive, combative and very aggressive. Will not take her medications or eat when she needs to. Only if she wants to at that time. She as been nodding off all day, and up all night...climbing out of bed that has rails...she has fallen several times and it is very difficult to get her up. She is mean and nasty to me and my husband...sometimes the kids. I am exhausted and tearful constantly...I have given up everything to take care of her...we will not qualify for Medicaid to put her in NH permanently because she was ok up until a year ago and the "spend-down" was not done correctly and she will be disqualified. Please help me.