I live next door to my parents and intereact with them everyday. My mother, who has had declining health for about five years now, is constantly trying to point out things that my dad does that she beleives indicates he has Altzheimers. My dad behaves in a way, and has the memory of a 76 year old. There is nothing there to indicate he has Altzheimers. If my dad forgets to mail letters, she points it out to him, me, and anyone who will listen. Literally everything. Just yesterday, she was writing a check at a store and wrote it out to a completely different store that she was at, and left her ID behind. She said 'don't tell your father.' When I asked why she didn't want me to tell him, she said "you don't believe anything I tell you he's doing." I don't know what to do. I think she might be trying to divert attention away from her because she is sick. Honestly, I want to start pointing every little thing out to her that she forgets but I love her and don't want to be mean but I want her to leave my father alone. Just today she told me the same story twice in a matter of about 6 hours which she constantly does. I don't know what to do.