I tell her that it never happened and that she has memory loss. Should I just go along with what she thinks? Should I not be telling her that she has dementia. I just do not know how to handle this anymore. I am so stressed out everyday, I get a tone in my voice that I do not like. I mostly do not get that way, I try to be patient with mom everyday, but sometimes it is just to hard. I am sure there are a lot of people having this problem caring for an elderly parent. Any advice?