My 94 yr old Mom has been in AL for 3 years. She was living alone, hallucinating, calling the police, and started to wander. You know the list....For 18 months she seemed to be adjusting, but Now, she is always nasty when I visit...I "put' her there, what kind of daughter am I , I can go to h*ll, etc. She either yells at me, or completely ignores me, and won't talk at all. I see the other residents, and they appear to deal with their situations in a much better way than my Mom. She is on anti-depressants. She is nice to the caregivers, always wants to see me, but when I visit, my presence agitates her. I have developed a thicker skin, but I feel badly that she is not more content. I wish there was a "happy" pill. Any thoughts??