My brother (52), still lives home. We tried talking with him-and then he yells at his mom for telling us he was yelling at her. It's mental abuse. I witnessed this many times- only with us yelling at each other-becasue he talks over you & cannot have a normal conversation. He is a retired cop. He is out of the house on the weekend- which she loves.We want him to ask him to move out-but- before this blows up- are there any other suggestions? But, it would be nice if someone was there more to check in that she is eating- Which she is not eating what she brings to her volunteer job - M-F 10-4pm. Her driving skills are fading as well. He cannot handle the situation at all. He means well, but, is making her worse, depressed and having anxiety going home when she knows he will be there. He has OCD, so that does not help..