She’s 83, has had four strokes and is at the beginning of dementia. She needs help to walk and is always tired. She can only speak short commands. All she cares about is getting her personal needs met. I’m trying to put her on a schedule that forces her to use her diaper, stay up longer and take long naps. I keep her in her own room all night. I am going to ask the doctor for stronger meds to help her be comfortable. I’m so frustrated. Please advise.