Mom was only in assisted living for he week and two days and is now in hospital. Let me make it clear it was nothing the ALF did. Mom is a brittle type 1 Diabetic. She refused to leave apartment, was refusing to bath or even change her clothes, even with them bringing her meals and sitting with her she was refusing food. I even stock her kitchen with her favorite foods. So all of that causes major sugar problems. Not taking care of her meds or self was a major part of her moving to ALF. She is in the early stage of dementia as well. As I visit her in ICU I feel major guilty of doing the wrong thing. She can not come live with me for many reasons. One major being I can not manage her diabetes well. So I do not know if I should have her go back to the ALF, move to a memory care ALF or nursing home. I just don't know who can handle her crazy brittle Diabetes and behavior issues. I don't want to have moving her as we continue to figure it out. Suggestions anyone have a similar situation?